According to the wave of ethnic wedding

We hand in hand into the courtyard, where the real buzz, like the Grand Bazaar.





    I first went to him to bring saw his family: his father was a chief, dressed in traditional African gowns and wearing a red hat sitting leisurely home to build the arbor. Namo similar to his age, old people with him, watching us new, if it looks like we have been out of the many regulars do not feel we have events like strange. Touches children in the hospital ran, racing to the big eyes not far away to see us.





    The friend took my hand and introduced me to his father, said she was from China, specifically to participate in my wedding. (Although I have not "specifically" because of the wedding to come to this country, it touches on his wedding to come to this village.) I smiled and went over to hug with his father, the father said to welcome you. I said, Congratulations. Then his father introduced me to those around him companions, events like so and so's uncle, the relatives of so and so, so and so's grandfather, made me dizzy. A time where I know the then multi elderly, only with a smile on every one of them.

 

   The obi is the boss at home, they are the boss of a very respectable home. And friends is really the boss itself, a small difference to all his brothers and sisters called (stress the importance of brothers and sisters, they all called: brother, sister) I know. Not long after, his five brothers and one sister are gathered. He told me one by one, the people are pleased that several of his brothers and his are subject to a good education, all at the university, a medical student, also studied architecture. He studied architecture specifically called out said to me, you see, my house is built. This way, I carefully look at his house, in some places has not been fully built, but on the whole are doing a good job, a very beautiful European architecture has three floors, each floor has large terrace exploration. Each of them were very polite and greeted us, and his sister is also a great party to come and eleven to say hello. Last seen is his mother, a very gentle person, and every one of us to remain a shadow.






    The yard began to take the stove, particularly large that the blame is put in the yard in several places; some people in the firewood; Some people cut the meat; there are those who in the allocation of palm oil seeds. Everyone under the sun doing their job at hand, I can not tell which are employed to which this family, mostly a look at me, then silently bow to dry things. That scene is estimated that only rural areas in China can see it, this trip was not walked in vain. I asked him, you buy the number of chickens and cattle, and sheep? He told me that 150 cattle and sheep, 10 chickens. I asked enough? He said almost. I just want to wait for the arrival of the wedding, then I can see the slaughter of chickens to sheep to the scene.




    I finally friends ushered into his own home.

Love in the cart

He likes her very considerate heartache her. He knows she likes to take care of a waterfall hair modification slim delicate fingers. He knew that she liked the the Dicos of the city, dragon fruit in the supermarket glass cases. However, when their children were born, he gradually faded away from these, he felt that these are no longer so important.
At first, he and she in order to improve their lives, squeezed into the ranks of migrant workers into the city. Her to marry him, without complaint, after all, she loved him, industrious, honest, and will hurt people.
The new century, cities, flowers, crowded, but they do not belong. Taste just faded city chill wind blowing, the cold wave frequently, smell the atmosphere less than the spring. His ride in the construction of buildings in a bed, add a briquette stove be regarded as security under a temporary home. Workers in the building; she has done a barbecue trolley at the supermarket entrance and rented one, can be considered to find a stable job.
Day, she Tuizhao Che from the shabby room, standing in the howling wind and early morning mist from as early as, and other supermarket after shutting up shop, tired body home. Every day she felt bones falling apart, but in the faith of love, she was looking forward to full to survive from day to day.
Most of the day working to be earlier than her, he most of the day will go to the supermarket door to take her the way to the busy her a hand with some effort. The trolley concentrated their time of love. Two happy children Tuizhao Che walk on the way home, the street lights shining on deserted roads leaving a pair of Lovers fuzzy shadow, became a no one to appreciate the beautiful scenery.
Time, the foreman to meet deadlines, work than her late. She has long bed rest, breath gently snoring, sleep like a baby.
She rolled over and very tired, and even a hands exposed in the bed outside, nor did feel.
He won her hands gently, cool, palm students from calluses, fingers in several places long the frostbite, bulging, red, nudged have felt with the heart of pain. He stared at his hands, tears streaming down her cheeks.
That night, he was removed could not sleep. Leave some savings, and her addition to the daily necessities, never squandering a penny. The wind in the city they sneaked into the body, they are not aware of. Like to fight every day like life, full to the brim, he never accompanied her shopped in a mall, not to mention she bought a bottle of frostbite cream.
His heart suddenly surprised her hand every winter will have a lot of frostbite, he knows. He put her hands round to the chest, you want to heat some cover, but afraid muggy when her hands would itch, wake up from dreams intoxicated. He put her hand to warm it up, again Oh one heat to go to her itch. Until dawn, and he still can not forgive their own carelessness. In his Xinrudaoge deeply blame himself.
Work the next day, he deliberately went to a nearby shopping malls, a box of quick frostbite cream appealed to him, the price of 36 yuan a box of really startled him, and this is more than a day's wages, he did not hesitate to bought it.
When he the quick Unguentum on the palm of her hand, she surprised a long time, suddenly burst into tears. She felt that co Unguentum are full of love. A few days of their first wedding anniversary, she felt that this is the best way to commemorate a gift.
He knows he needs to love her better. He work so hard coupled with studious appreciation of the foreman, and promoted him as a captain. Later, he became a foreman, pockets drum slowly up and bought a big house in the city. He would not let her go to sell barbecue, wanted her to feel at ease housewives.
Later, she gave birth to a fat guy. Cool air-conditioned room, her hand never given birth to frostbite.
However, each wedding anniversary, even if the memory of the gift is more and more upscale, more creative, she was more and miss the bottle of "expensive" frostbite cream, are increasingly looking to shed when the tears of happiness.

Operate their own is the most important

The business does not refer to their own selfishness, disregard for others, but to treat yourself, live in the moment, understanding others, with people and do things with their own. Unfortunately, many people ignored in the hustle and bustle of this.
Better life depends on careful management. The following four points, although hard to do, but precisely the disdain many people did not stick with it, and finally regret for life.

First, health is the greatest wealth.
Health is the root of everything. The money is wealth, the young capital, but not health, wealth, and where, without health, the young no longer an advantage, loss of health will lose everything. "1" represents health, take a look at healthy how important it is:
A "1" on behalf of health, the back write "0" a bunch, followed by representatives of utilities, property, cars and house, beautiful beautiful Johnson wife, smart, cute small Kenjiro, philanthropy and tourism, as well as the ideals and longing. Less a "0" does not matter, at least two "0" no harm, even if less out three "0", you have no significant impact. If want to "1" to remove, would not the yellow beam Mengyi Chang. Visible health responsibility, you friends consider. The only happy, healthy families, the health career thriving.
Unfortunately, many people wait until the health problem to pay attention to this point, it not too late!

Second, your assets where your heart will be where.
For their own areas of investment, you are going to study, thinking, pondering, and strive to become the industry experts in the field, own property and not want to be there, ignored, drift, or to someone else to take care of, from however ask and float. You have to learn to let your assets to increase their value. Looks very simple, very important thing, but unfortunately many people do not learn financial management, over-reliance on others, the old concept of ignorance, and other property have been depleted before a clear understanding of this, would it not sad!
Third, your income comes from where.
To be aware of your strengths, interests, hobbies, want to know where your income comes mainly from Either love your job, or give up. Heart to do everything, but the dedication is not enough. Dedicated only dry out the incompetent, and intentions to dry out the good and excellent. Society of happy, happy working from a happy mood, will create more results. Dedicated to the professionalism and expertise, to achieve the ultimate, you will become the industry experts and the winner, only experts can make money. Unfortunately, many people do not recognize that they buried his talent, a lifetime to get out of the hesitation and uncertainty, the final mediocrity suffer all their life, not ridiculous!

Care for your loved ones.
Use more inclination to care for your parents, wife, children, care for their health, life and growth, to pay for them more time, money and effort. Care for the young is the traditional Chinese virtues. The great virtue is the greatest virtue, wealth and attribution. Cherish and have a Thanksgiving can be a long time. The tree may prefer calm and the wind blows, son wants his parents are not ". Unfortunately, a lot of people to old to death just wake up, would not regret!
Person's life needs to hard to operate. Want to know: the direction is more important than method, choose than the efforts of important attitude than ability to, his attitude is more important than skills, knowledge is more important than academic qualifications, the thinking is more important than action, confidence is more important than gold, health is more important than wealth, happiness more important than to enjoy, reading important than books, sober than wise important, the results more important than the process ... all because you are your own treasures.

Yellowed wedding

The summer of 2000 as a charitable organization of volunteers, will be the same, another volunteer and go to a dying man former residence for him to clean up an old photo the dying of the elderly require only brought him a wedding.
To the former residence of the elderly downstairs, opened the door, greeted by the taste of the thick dust. The floors, tables, windows, bookshelves filled with thick dust, evidently for many years no one comes. I volunteer predecessors and peers on the shelf to find several picture frames, to take on a damp hard to wipe away the dust of the photo frame surface, to find a wedding.




This is a black and white photo of a yellow. Photo background is the shelf before I, flooring styles, tables, chandeliers on the ceiling or curtain styles are, and as of now, just clean and bright pictures, window through bright as the Sun, seem to be able to smell the book. Handsome tall man on the left in the photo, then look for the elderly. Photos of him in suits, face solemn and elegant, determination of the eyes look straight ahead, and intellectuals have issued the age of a gentleman. Standing beside his wife on the side of wearing white gauze, delicate face, fine and outstanding nose, like a mythical Elf in the West. Her right hand was taking her husband's left elbow, left hand holding a heavy Bible, was wearing a bright even dress, exposing her slender flawless legs below the knees. Bride in white on red faces at this time filled with happy smile, round eyes staring at the Flash on the camera, as she is seen in the eyes to heaven.






Peers who told me that the older generation of care for the elderly, elderly graduated from Whampoa Military Academy while war, once the Commander of a division of the KMT army. He got married the next day, the KMT Central command, immediately went to the front line. His new wife, as a member of army nurses also reached the front line. Days to the front again after the Japanese RAID, bandaged injury she was wounded, has been spread by stray bullets, died on the spot. He took command of the fight, held out for more than 40 days later, lack of military supplies and ammunition. Japanese troops break up lines, attempting to encircle the alive teachers. As a teacher he, with only around a rifle, a handgun and dozens of rounds of ammunition, fierce resistance, was shot by the enemy after the spine, causing total paralysis and almost captured. Also he was a squad of soldiers under him to break through the enemy's encirclement, successfully escaped. Arrangement of youguojun hospital nurse to care for him. After the end of the civil war, the military all retreated to Taiwan, leaving a disabled veterans. Later, for a long time, the old man lived a living begging day. Now people in neighborhoods and homes for the elderly, mostly only knows he is modest of few words, young wound, did not know all of his past.






Finally, we bring to this photo, the rest of the frame back into place, closing the door to leave. Afraid to disturb the happiest time of a couple